Hey guys! It's been a while since I have posted anything. It's quite hard for one to write a blog when one has locked themselves out of their own computer! But I wanted to update ya'll, so I braved the weather to come use my momma's computer.
Everything is still a go for baby G. His is due to arrive pretty soon. The birthmom is doing good and taking care of herself, and seems to be at peace with her decision. Please pray that she continues to think about what is best for the baby, and that she and baby stay healthy. We don't even want to think about the devastation of something going wrong.
Several of you have asked how the process works, or when he will be "ours". So here is what I know.
No earlier than 72 hours after the birth, the birthparents will sign a relinquishment of parental rights. This will grant us temporary custody of the baby.
We will stay a hotel unless we are cleared to leave the state ( 5-10 days). We can then come home.
The BM has about 20 days after she signs the papers to revoke her signature and parent the baby. Beyond that, focus shifts from whose biological child it is to who is best fit to parent him.
We cannot actually file for adoption until 90 days after the birth of the baby. But we will have legal custody of him as soon as she signs the papers at 72 hours.
I know its alot, but as I like to say- IT IS WHAT IT IS. People do much more risky and extraordinary things everyday. I know God will give us the strength to withstand all of this. We are praying fervenatly EVERYDAY that the BM continues to think about what is best for the baby.
By the way, we did get to name the baby. We love his name, and are so excited to share it with you later!
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